Just thought I would mention that you can go to anywho.com and put in her first and last name along with the state she lives in and it will give you possible addresses and phone numbers. This is really none of my business, but I do feel, that if things transpired like you say, it is very wrong. I could be wrong but I feel after all this time, she has no intentions of honoring her word. I hope everything works out and wish you the best of luck.
YorkieProud