Be strong! Lily will be OK in her crate. She may not like it, but eventually she will learn to love it. There is a lot of info on here, and if you do a search on "crate", you will get a boatload of help. Lots of folks here also use xpens with their crates to give their babies a bit more room. Or they put their crates in the bathroom or a similar small space.
Wosie sleeps in her crate at night, and she has less accidents. She is always really happy to get out of it, though!
Good luck! With persistance and encouragement, you will both get through this!
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