I feel so bad for you. I can feel that you are agonizing over this. I don't know anything about this surgery so I have no advice in that respect. I also don't know what I would do in your situation.
Perhaps someone on YT could start a thread of willing dogsitters in different areas of your country. Someone mentioned here that if they lived closer to you they would dogsit. Maybe there is someone close to you.
Whatever decision you make I am sure will be well informed. Best wishes. |