I have to agree with Mary...never say never. One would have to walk in the other person's shoes to be able to make any kind of judgement.
I really think Sophie's mom is remarkable!! She's still exploring all her options and she needs to be commended! I applaud her!
Donna
P.S. I'm also amazed that this thread has remained very educational and being discussed in a very adult manner
Kuddos to all!