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Originally Posted by Disney Well actually with all drama in my life, I really like...Lets call him Phantom  because our relationship is so calm and in rut, it comforting. I sure when my life is back on track though, I want something new. That being said, I do like him lot lot more than the dumb jock I usually date...He actually interesting...Plus he like me for my brain not my face which never happen before. |
This sounds like the basis for a good relationship, I use to like drama in my relationships, but I found life has enough drama and now I like my relationships stable. You can always add some spice to an old recipe, you don't need an entirely new recipe.

In other words, the drama can come from other aspects of your life and things that you are doing, it doesn't need to involve the man, he can be your rock and safe haven, but he does have to be interesting.