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Originally Posted by janetcerdas  I really don't get why the word "sugar coat" keeps coming up because the op never asked for any sugar coating she just asked for straight up advice |
It keeps coming up because when she does get straight up advice, members who can't even offer any keep jumping in and lecturing others on being rude and how they
should have posted. (Which seems to be a regular habit for some.
) You say that getting told the same thing over and over isn't doing her any good and I agree--her view of the situation probably is not going to be swayed. But you never know who else is reading that might think twice and benefit from it. People other than the OP read threads and learn. That's been pointed out several times by various members very recently.