yep its her house. i do my best to bite my tongue most of the time but sometimes i lose my cool unfortunately. She is actually happy that I am training them, thats why I get frustrated and really do want to work together, I just wish she would reinforce it. Oh well i guess thats all i can do. Yea I have heard that it is not bad to pick them up by the nap of the neck because that is what the puppies mother does to carry them in the first place. thanks for the info |