Could you find a room mate? I know that's easier said than done.
nana911, sounds like a great voice of experience and I agree with her about :
What I have learned is that when you are married to the right person you don't look outside the marriage for fulfillment, sexual, friendship or anything else. You have friends and a social life, even with the opposite sex, but not the kind of intimate conversations that you can't repeat to your spouse. If you're married to the right person you shouldn't have any conversation, text, email, lunch, activity, experience..anything that you can't repeat verbatim, moment by moment to your spouse with no worries. Your spouse is your best friend. If there is anything you can't share with him/her then there is deceit and that is a problem.
I hope you can reach down within yourself and find the strength you need, if times are tough for a while because of the house situation just think of how good they will be later when this is far in the past. |