Please don't take this as what you should do but simply as what I would do.
If I were financially independent I would file for a divorce and ask him to leave, change the locks and begin the healing process. If I needed help with $ I'd sell everything I didn't need, find a job or way to supplement my income then I'd leave or ask him to leave. Sad to say $ plays a big role in what you can and can not do ;(
There are people out there that you could be with that would not treat you like that, you deserve respect, truth and love.
I'm all for trying to work through problems with a counselor and divorce is always a last resort, but cheating is a line you can't un-cross. IMO. |