this helped me hi while im not 100% sure im allowed to post this im sorry if im not but i thought i would share as it really helpoed me after my much loved fife needed to be pts. i was lost and sad anyway i did some searching read some books but i found an online chat room at the apbl.org they have a chat and mods a few times a week i know this might not be for everyone but it really helped me so i thought i would share |