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Originally Posted by Mardelin

You're right.

Ann states there is no black and white the rules are basic guideline. I've PM'd asking questions on how or why MOD or ADMIN did something. They do attempt to be fair, but then life isn't always fair.....

I do get tired that things have changed and they probably have. Some things for the good of YT and the dogs.

People flying under the radar, posting inuendos but not actually attacking. My opinion is, well good for them, they're following the rules. They've learned how to do this.

Bottom line ADMIN and MOD call the shots, and this post was put in place to explain why they do what they do. To give us an understanding, not to complain about this and that. And as an has stated if you have questions an action, PM her. What I have learned is not to call her or Admin out in public....not a great way to argue your cause.

Originally Posted by chachi

I was gone for a couple of months so I may see things differently than others who have been here every day. I see alot of negativity on the forum now since Ive been back. Judging from the number of people who have left and the number who are disgruntled they are seeing it too. People on here justify it by saying they speak their mind, that they arent saying anything they wqouldnt say yo someones face etc. Opinions can be given with some compassion with them. They dont have to be so harsh all the time. Now I now there are some situations where the situation is so reprehensible it may require a harsher response but most dont. Most can be given with some understanding or compassion.. Ann did a thread asking for just that so I dont see what more her or Admin can because people stop just short of name calling so they dont get suspended. The change needs to come from the members. We need to have compassion like Ann has asked for

I don't see an argument - I see some people asking for clarification. Ann started this thread to tell us that it isn't always black and white in their decision making.... we understand that but some things are.

Armani did not ask about anyone else's posts - she asked what she had/was doing wrong for her post to be deleted. If she didn't quote a bad post, if she wasn't attacking another member - then what did she do wrong? That's all she was asking - what's wrong with that?

As far as complaining goes.... I think we know where to find that.

Chachi - I'm with you on this one.