I was gone for a couple of months so I may see things differently than others who have been here every day. I see alot of negativity on the forum now since Ive been back. Judging from the number of people who have left and the number who are disgruntled they are seeing it too. People on here justify it by saying they speak their mind, that they arent saying anything they wqouldnt say yo someones face etc. Opinions can be given with some compassion with them. They dont have to be so harsh all the time. Now I now there are some situations where the situation is so reprehensible it may require a harsher response but most dont. Most can be given with some understanding or compassion.. Ann did a thread asking for just that so I dont see what more her or Admin can because people stop just short of name calling so they dont get suspended. The change needs to come from the members. We need to have compassion like Ann has asked for |