I too have the same problem with Zhoie's hair.  I finally went back to cutting her half visor. meaning it's cut only to the middle of each eye not all the way across.  
I only put a half top knot in if I want a bow or colored band in for going somewhere.   It's seems to work well for both of us.  She hated taking her hair down at night and then having it hang down over her face. And I hated seeing her tilt her head back to look at me, lol. Plus the hair in her eyes make them water so much.     
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