I purposely stayed away from that thread and apparently missed some others. Sometimes I'm so clueless
but sometimes, I think I like being clueless.
While I do try to have a live and let live attitude, I really don't want to come on YT and openly discuss private things, nor do I want to read about others private business. Now I know that I can choose to ignore them but I'm concerned that this attitude will give some the idea that it's accepted. And although I have to admit I have not read that whole other thread, the little bit I did read was quite enough.
I'm afraid that once that stuff is accepted as the norm here, well, it's just not a place I'd want to be any longer. Maybe I'm just too old fashioned or something...