great thread!!!!!!!!! Now if we could only do something about those pesky pm's that float around behind the scenes that invariably make it back to the one that is being talked about!!!!!!!!! What a wonderful world it would be!!!!!!!!

Sometimes what people post in puiblic and what they say in pm's are so very different. Compassion needs to be in both places. I rarely post anymore but I do read all the threads and see what people are talking about.