I will admit a few months ago a newbie joined the forum, she & I did not meet eye to eye on more than few things....my feathers were beyond ruffled!! Since then we have made it passed that point and have got along just fine. She realized my points and I realized hers! I do feel that at times I come off a bit strong on what I believe in and don't realize others might not be aware of points trying to be made. If we can all just be a little more compassionate on how we post, look at the amount of people we can help on a daily basis!