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Originally Posted by Mardelin  The OP is speaking about the Marital S-E-X thread.
As far as Steve posting pics of Hogs, if you find them offensive don't read them.
He didn't post a pic of a dog that was his and if someone got their facts straight and visited another forum/list. He was conversing with the owner of a dog that looked like Carlo.
It does appear people do have a vendetta out for Steve. He has apologized on several occassions, but some just don't know how to let it go and it's become a contest to some people. How childish when people feel that because one takes up for a person on a vulnerable day (yes, the BD of the daughter he lost in a car accident 14 years ago), feel it's more about you like him more than you like me.....It's very visible, you don't have to be the sharpest knife in the drawer to see it. No one has bashed this person, as implied on the said thread. |
He is apparently not the only one who some have focused a "vendetta" on.
I don't normally get into threads as this one, and thought long and hard about posting here . And if it makes me unpopular, so be it. But you keep referring to "this person" as if it is all her fault for politely asking for an offensive pics of dead animals not to be posted?
And then making it appear to be her fault for a certain member to threaten to leave the forum? How is this not attacking? And there are numerous posts by you in that thread making sly remarks about "this person" and how she was in the wrong, not knowing someone was having a bad day, yada yada. I would be happy to quote some of the posts here, if anyone would like to read what i am talking about. It is obvious who likes who and who doesn't like who, which is really not the point here at all. But you can sure figure it out when reading those posts, lol
Are we to be expected to be mind readers and know that a member lost a family member years ago and then assume when and whether to post a polite discussion about offensive pics? or let it slide that it happened?
I lost my brother, watched him die of cancer on a certain day years ago, and watched my mother die of cancer on a certain day years ago, not to mention others in my life, does that mean I expect all of you on the internet to know I am having a bad day because of the sadness it brings me each year on that day? NO I do not.
I fully respect and have empathy for all who have lost children, siblings, parents, etc. I truly know just how hard it is.
This member you keep pointing out in a negative way, has been a member here for
many years, LOVES animals, CARES about animals and is here only because of her BIG HEART for those precious animals. Why the push to keep putting blame on her? Who here really has the vendetta?
Food for thought, how much do we really know about anyone here?
Thanks for the opportunity to defend another member who deserves more respect than what has been shown here recently.
Good bye