Addie was three months old when we got her, and she wasn't much of a cuddle bug either. For my part, I do kind of like that independent, spunky, stubborn spirit she has. Reminds me of someone.
Anywho, she has become more cuddly with time (she's two years old now). She certainly doesn't like it when you wrap your arms around her, but she now tolerates it. I can even get her to kiss me by making a kissy noise. When she was younger, it was almost like she gave me a look of disgust when I tried to get a kiss from her.