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Old 06-20-2010, 07:46 AM   #65
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Originally Posted by Mardelin View Post
It is ironic and I understand what you're saying. However, when you have someone that is asking questions and you provide advice, based on experience and what is correct and they don't take advice. That's when topics get heated. When those people asking for advice are just asking for affirmation and going to do what they're going to do.

I use to just keep on attempting to answer their questions by responding with my answers in different ways, it hopes that my responses weren't getting through because of the way I was communicating. Now, when that happens, I know that I won't continue attempting to change their minds and contribute to a newbie's irresponsible breeding practices. I respond with "I'm done", go the top and unsubscribe to that particular thread.
IMO it does your statement applies to just about every section of this forum. We all try to give advice nicely and then others attack us when things start to go south. It happens over and over again. After repeated attacks by so many you begin to think there is no hope to make a change or difference.
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