I think this thread is well-intended, however, this section is for sick and injured animals - not for debate or personal issues. This would have been more appropriate for a PM, as this is clearly between 2 people.
If there is a need to discuss the progression of Sick/ER threads and what is/isn't
appropriate - then that discussion should be in Site Suggestions/Questions or Off Topic and should not involve deliberately engaging specific members. Rather, it should remain topical - if anything is to be accomplished.
This thread is now closed
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