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Originally Posted by svt_geek  What can I do with this dog??? I'm sick and tired of it and I'm really concerned about the future when we begin trying to have kids in a couple of years. |
I agree with the advice to seek out a really good trainer to come to your home.
Your frustration is very understandable, but the first thing you need to do is hide your aggravation from the dog. No matter what he does, stay in command and maintain a calm demeanor. Be assertive, but not angry or exasperated. If you are anxious and excited, the dog is going to feed off of that negative energy.
Marking: is the dog neutered? Breaking the established habit at that age will be a challenge. Always praise the dog when he potties in the correct place (outdoors or piddle pad). If you catch him marking, give a firm "no." Never scold if you find evidence of marking. It's counterproductive.
Crating probably won't help with marking. Crating should never be used as punishment either. I would try containing him in an xpen or a single room, gated off with baby gates. If he is a jumper/climber, make sure you have an xpen or gates that are tall enough.
Overall disposition and behavior: if you don't already, give the dog a schedule for feeding, exercising, playing, sleeping. Structure is calming. Try taking over the responsibility of feeding him and walking with him. If he has to look to you for food and walks, he will likely develop more respect for you.
Get involved with the dog by playing fetch with him for 10 minutes or more. Work on teaching him some tricks.
Give the dog a daily massage, if he will let you and/or your wife.
Check out books and videos on dog training and behavior.
If the dog bites, always use keywords and phrases to let him know that it is not acceptable -- "no bite."
I hope some of this will help to start improving your relationship with the dog.