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Originally Posted by yorkiepuppie  cory, i am very happy that you decided to speak up. i think communication is very important and we should always speak up to clarify things and defend ourselves. |
I agree with this...I also agree with Quicksilver, Rudy's Mom, Patti and Greta in hoping these 2 can have dialogue again, as they obviously have done in the past. Whether you end by liking with the person says or not, you should start there. If at the end, you still feel the same, disowning them as a friend or whatever, I can see at that time, going elsewhere for support or to vent.
If one of my good friends did something I found hurtful, backstabbing, etc., I would let that person know first, unless of course, I never really considered her a friend to begin with.
I respect both of you ladies & maybe after cooling down a bit, this can be talked about between the two of you...as friends.
Sorry both of you are hurting.