[Latuya]

wow tough question. I did let me kids go to services for my aunt but there was no body to view. Just a beautiful picture next to her ashes.

I do know that after seeing my grandmother after she passed is one of those images I will get out of my head. and it's been like 19 years. My nana was my world. She raised me and pass when I was 17. As time goes by I try and remember her face. I had a detail image in my head for years and now I can no longer reacal the details. The one image I have is her in that coffin looking so not like her! I don't know how your daughter will react. She seems to be very mature. I wish you luck with what ever you decide to do. And I am so sorry for your loss.