I'm not an expert and i'm sure there will be some very helpful answers when people see your post.
If i was in your situation and you decide you do want to keep all three, i think the first thing you will probably have to do is book them all in for spaying/neutering.
hopefully that would calm things down a bit. (just thinking i will probably go back and re-read your post and see that they are all spayed/neutered anyway!)
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