[quote=Jilleen;3144943]
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Originally Posted by Maximo  There is no right answer. Some people need time, others heal faster by opening their homes and hearts right away to another pet.
I agree.
When I lost Isabel (she has been gone for 13 months) I was completely lost. I had a hard time deciding whether or not to get another yorkie, because I knew i could never replace her. I brought Addyson home 3 months later and it was the best decision for me. Althought you can never replace another... the new one helped to fill the giant hole in my heart. I still pray everyday that a miracle will happen and Isabel will come home. |
My brother's girlfriend suggested getting another.. She said when her pug was missing, she was prepared to get another. Her pug came back. For me, I feel bad.. Like it's wrong.. Maybe I should wait a little longer? Until me and my boyfriend are really ready? I want this to be mutual for me and my boyfriend. I want him to be ready too. I feel so conflicted.. I THINK I'm ready.. but maybe my boyfriend isn't.