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  The death of a child is always hard to handle now matter what age you are.  I feel that this would be to much on her to handle.  She might say that she understands what a wake is all about but actually seeing it is much different. I think that I would explain to her your feelings on this and not let her go.  Explain to her that after its over her friend will still need lots of support. Thats my advice.  |