okay so i did put her cone back on as soon as i got the first response form this forum. She has it on at home now and i left her in my masted bathroom, and left my Sharpie (which was neutered yesturday) in my guest bathroom because it is alot smaller. They should be okay like this. I will keep her cone on. If the red does not reduce by the time i get home from work i am calling the vet.
But i do think it was cause of her licking. She kepts bumping her cone against every door, wall and piece of floor she could
Poor baby.