thank you everyone for your replies we ARE going to get her help of course,but we do not have deep pockets i wish we did.i just hate that this is even happening.i heard bladder tumors where rare and its so hard to believe.when the vet called us we was expecting her to have a uti (which she never had one before) but when they said bladder tumor i could have died.we love our girl so much and i hope they can help her somehow!