Awww, it sounds like you both are having a rough time. You need to show her you are the Alpha. This means you eating first before she eats. Taking her food away while she's eating to show that you are in control. When you go to pick her up, give her a treat (small) every time. This may take a while, but after a bit, she will connect being picked up as being a good thing. As for the barking and growling at the door, put her harness and leash on her. Have a friend ring the doorbell or knock. When she reacts pull her away on her harness. When she settles, give her a small treat. This again, may take a while, but patience and consistency are the key to changing her behavior. We're taking days or weeks it may take, but work on it everyday or as often as you can. As for the potty training, using a crate really works. Dogs won't go where they eat and sleep. There is a book called, "How to House Break Your Dog in Seven Days." While it took longer than seven days, it worked for Sydney. She's litter box trained. You keep your dog on a strict food, play, and potty schedule. Yes, she will probably bark in her crate, but that's to be expected if she isn't use to it. You might want to first start by placing treats in her crate with the door open. Eventually, she may grow to like her crate acting as if it is her den or sanctuary. Please don't give up on her. Yorkies are wonderful dogs. You just need to be patient.
I hope this helps. Let us know how her training is going.
Sincerely,
Sonya |