If it's meant to be it will happen...if not it shouldn't be forced in my opinion. Case in point...Molly & Murfee...first time for both of them, one quick tie after Murfee being a mis directed goofball for days
...results: 3 healthy, beautiful Biewer boys who are now making their new families happy. We didn't hold either of them until after the tie and that was to be sure they didn't get hurt because they were on the top step of our front deck.