Your post touched me. My grandfather recently passed away, after living with us for over 13 years. I was VERY close to him. While in the hospital, we were reading the Bible with him, just talking to him about memories and things of the sort, in his final hours. The nurses brought up how many patients don't have family there to do these things. It is admirable that you are able to look past or over the things that he may have done. Only a few things matter at this stage in his life. I will pray for you both...and I mean it