Don't worry about being rude if someone didn't even have the manners to ASK you - That's an accident waiting to happen and it only takes a split second for them to lose their grip - so BE BLUNT - they'll live
I've never had that problem - I've let people hold mine but only when they
ASKED and I was able to tell them they wiggle so be very careful -
if they just grabbed one of mine they'd know in a hot minute I don't like it and neither do my girls - they love being held by people they know but not strangers |