Thanks everyone for all the great welcomes and advice. I am doing the best I can right now. She is so insecure it is crazy. If I leave her for more than a few minutes then she whines. I have just tried to ignore it and move on. It can be tough though cause I see her sweet face and want to hold her. I figure she is like a baby. You dont always go to them every time they cry.
Its just a guess. I hope im not doing anything wrong.