[kdreamson]

You cannot blame yourself! Guilt is such a destructive force...it will make you physically sick! I know you hold yourself responsible for this tragic accident, Try,try not to blame yourself. I would have never even thought of such a thing happening! I know i will now! Think of all the little lives saved by your Gracie...I plan on telling everyone i know to caution against this accident! I just wish i could say the one thing that would take away your pain,our hearts are just breaking for you & your family. Terribly sorry for your loss... Just think how sad Gracie would be if she knew you were distressed so terribly and blaming yourself, she would say to you if she could...how much she loved you and misses you but will be there for you waiting to greet you in Heaven.(but not for many,many,many many more years!!) She does not blame you...she wants you to be happy.Go ahead and grieve,you need to,but please try not to be too hard on yourslef.