Many of us have felt your anguish. I'm so sorry you lost your little guy to a horrible accident. Please have faith that all well go well with your baby's surgery. My Ruby was kept overnight as well, it was awful not having her here but I knew it was for the best. I can't say how long your baby will be sore as I'm sure the hernias will add to the recovery. Try not to stress too much (i know easier said than done!)