I assume Toby is still a puppy. As a puppy he is young and gets carry away when he is playing and gets too rough and unfortunately Mali is taking the blunt of it. But you would think being a full grown cat that she knows better and is able to get away from Toby if she wanted to. If she doesn't have anywhere to run. Best if you find her some.
Anyway, I think you have to do is teach Toby he has to play nicely. If Toby starts to get too rough you have to stop the playing and let him know. Tell him "NO" or " Play nicely" in the firm voice. If you have to, pick Toby up or give him time out until he can calms down.
Good luck. |