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Originally Posted by luvdorkyyorkies  lol.........you mean like getting a separation? Or having some time apart?
Martial sex ........what is that? I forgot.
Ive been married 20 yrs!
Joking aside, for me it kind of comes in waves. Generally its based on what is going on or if we have been getting along. WIth me its alot with whats mentally going on. SOmetimes you just have to relax and let go...and almost force yourself to do it and you might find you are enjoying it. Seems like the longer I wait the less I want it too.
Or Ive did this tactic, wasnt in the mood at all, so I say "OK IM TIRED YOU HAVE 5 MINUTES NO FANCY STUFF" Its all about him and keeping the peace, but hey it works ! |
Time apart. Seems for years that one of us was traveling someplace for work for a few days.
20 years? You are still a newlywed. 38 years. I was just a baby when we got married.