I feel for you as a I am turning 35 I myself have been feeling that I am ignoring the need for sex and as well my husbands need ...its a need not a want. Our bodies need the endorphins and we need it mentally to remain healthy and stable. I know I should lol listen to what I type here! I am so into the mode of mommy /wife that I forget partner too...that he is my life partner and husband and best friend -but passion should always be important in a marriage