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Originally Posted by kdreamson  Yep this is me too! To the op... Girl, maybe it's not you at all! Maybe it's him that is just not getting you goin anymore! Why do we always blame ourselves!? I just have trouble getting in the mood with dh after i have to wash his nasty underwear or stepping into a big wet puddle in front of the toilet(in my socks of course!  ) We girls sometimes can't forget all that crap we have to put up with! Men are different...they can have sex with a woman they dislike just to have sex. I know we have needs but we also need to feel apprechiated & loved. So ask yourself...What has HE done for me lately? |
i aree with the entire post, but instead of asking what has he done lately - i think it's more of "what has he done RIGHT before doing the deed?"
my husband knows i don't care a bit about sex, but since he makes sure i'm taken care of first (most of the time) it makes it better. i think that's an issue with the OP - her husband won't "go there."