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Originally Posted by DerbyLayne  I don't want the IUD, it kind of scares me? convince me!
The nuvaring made me dry and it was so painful down there. it burned. I think I was allergic.
the patch made me spot forever and ever.
condoms are great, but not fool proof.
pull-out method is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. lol |
I understand your concern about alternate birth control. But I REALLY think it's the pill. You love your man right and don't want to have sex with anyone else correct?? You're going to have to find a way to work it out. I would use condoms if I were you, I would get off the pill. I feel like myself again!!!
Some things that have helped me get in the mood....
-date night-I LOVE seeing my babe all dressed up-he's a fox
, and I know what outfits he likes.
-VACATIONS!!!!!!! (we are like animals
)
-LINGERIE!!!!! I kid you not, when you feel sexy, you want to have sex
-Don't have "sex" in mind....do the whole playing around and foreplay is HUGE for women!!!!!! For many couples, satisfaction can come from "other methods."
-Now, this one....can get ugly but if in moderation, can help. Read a naughty novel, or erotic literature. If you're OK with watching some soft porn, watch it. It'll get your blood pumping. I'm talking about for you...not for him!!
I know how frustrating this can be.....
HUGS!!!!
Viv