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Originally Posted by stovesj  OK now I have to put my 2 cents worth. Before marriage, if a man wants a sexual relationship they with start with foreplay to try to get to first base and beyond. Many men, once you are married, skip this step which is a very important step for women. |
Warning TMI
My vibrator needs a new battery and I keep bugging to get a new battery and he's concerned about "needs and wants" in terms of buying things. I need stimulation, and I don't get it. Our agreement is "You don't have to do it for me, because I don't do it for you" if you know what I mean.
I hate doing it. HATE IT. but he's a guy, so what does he care? that's why I have my mini vibe to use during sex. He hates doing it too- so I guess i didn't luck out there. I use to date a guy who was all about that for a women, and honestly? I obviously wanted sex more or at least would be willing to do it.
Not only am I not in the mood ever, but I don't really get anything out of it. I have to do all the work for myself during, and when he tries to do manual help for me- I end up doing it myself anyway. He does end up trying, but it's after the "we're not getting anywhere" and by time my --- is done trying too. That's why I need my vibe back in business!
I guess you could say that not only am I not in the mood, I don't care about sex because I get nothing out of it. I do enjoy the "help" though when I'm "ready". It's nice to have him there, so to speak. then again, I don't even get myself off anymore... so I'm sure there's more to it.
I think I might discuss the possibility of going off birth control. To be honest, at this age, I'm worried about the long term useage and would really like to get that out of my system. I do want kids in the next 2-3 years.