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Originally Posted by shodanusmc  Ah, the old "slam, bam, thank you ma'am". |
ooohhh, ahhh...yeah, you bet
....love you honey, but is over yet?!
pretty much! lol.
we've come to an agreement. i'm sure it might change when i hit my "prime" but as of now - it works out well. i never say no, but i'm never "in the mood" either. i'm just not naive enough to think sex isn't important to men (and a lot of women) but just not me...anymore. so, when he wants it - he gets it - but he doesn't wait around for me to attack him cus he knows it won't happen. i do love my husband though so when it does happen, it's an emotional thing for me more than anything else...and it's emotional and majorly physical for him (he's a man). i don't dread it when he wants to - it's just that i couldn't care less. i don't care to not have it, or to have it. i just figure it's better to talk about it and come to an agreement instead of always saying "no" and being naive enough to think he won't get tired of hearing NO. that seems to be when they find someone who will say YES and neither of us wants that to happen.