Marcel peed on my husband twice

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Before he was neutered - twice, we'd all be on the sofa, hanging out - and Marcel would walk over, give Tony a sniff, lift his little leg, PEE on him; think it was hubby's arm. We about died. A 2-pounder peeing on my husband.
Once he was neutered, he never did that again. I guess it was a territory thing

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As for the lap thing, that sounds like my Wylie...he wants to meet EVERYone. Sounds like you a Diplomat on your hands.