I want to thank each one of you. My sister in law and her three daughters are basket cases. This is the closest death they have felt, and to have to see this, and try to get him down, left terrible terrible memories. They all only arrived back to California last September. My brother in law is retired Navy, and the girls and their husbands and/or boyfriends and children. Terrill, had also just finished his three years in the Navy. I think not having work, bills overpowering etc was too overwhelming for him. Our sherriff chaplin was so great, contacted the sherriff in Ohio so his parents wouldnt have to be told over the phone. Im going to go help clean house today and pack up Terrill's belongings and prepare for his family arrival. I feel useless, so at least helping them prepare, in some small way makes me feel Im helping. Thanks for listening, I just needed to vent. Linda |