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Originally Posted by kdreamson  Both of my children(12&2) were adopted at birth. I cannot even think of how anyone could send back this child! I was bonded with both of mine the moment they put them in my arms! When you have kids(by birth or adoption)there are no guarantee's...You get what you get! I can understand how difficult kids can be,especially ones with behavioral or mental issues! What did this person expect? There are so many agencies in the USA to aid with any problem. It is not a cheap thing to go thru the adoption proccess,so was money an issue? It is also an lengthy and complicated proccess(especially with another country involved) And to put a kid on a plane alone is inexcusable! And back to Russia no less! Poor little soul! Could there not be another answer to this situation? IDK. In my opinion, when you take on the responsability of another life(be it human or animal) it is YOUR responsibility until the end. I do not mean to sound cruel but this person maybe should have started out with a pet rock instead of a human being. Children do not come with a return clause. Period.  |
Unfortunately not all adopted parents bond or share the same belief...thankfully my parents shared your beliefs!
