As you say, you can't legislate for every contingency. My brother and I developed RAD in the orphanage setting, before adoption. My adoptive parents would have passed any tests with flying colors, but this was 50yrs ago before any of that...LOL There are natural born families with much worse problems and that is a whole 'nother forum, I'm sure!
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