wow
Well - my 2 cents (and
I am NOT a breeder -
nor part of some 'elite' group - but if you see how long I've been here
....I feel I can say this
For every ONE of you - there are 100's who become permanent members & never experience being judged. I agree some get 'the' treatment -but I also see newbies give it right back.....I've been on other sites and they were BRUTAL - this really is one of the nicer ones IMO - though lately I see what you're saying
I personally have never been judged (I don't think) and I post some off the wall stuff sometimes (joking of course)
How many out there think they can buy a teacup yorkie not knowing they're being 'gouged' for more money just because a breeder uses it as a selling ploy ?....... If no one spoke up - then how would people know ? (and I DO agree it's HOW you tell them that counts) but you have to remember - there are MANY personalities here - not everyone speaks the same
in the big picture - what may be something you consider judging - may be anothers learning experience -
personally... I'm a lover not a fighter
but have seen so many things I DIDN'T know from reading stuff you would consider a judgement threads
this site is to learn and talk and in my case - hang out.....(it's better than Adult Friend Finder right ?)