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Originally Posted by chandracz  I've seen a lot of threads like this and am sorry to say sometimes am scared to ask a question or make a comment myself. This site is for helping and learning, not arguing. I didn't see the thread you're talking about but I can just imagine. :/ |
I see so many people saying they are afraid to post questions. I for one am not. I just don't understand why if you (in general) have a legit question and you really are open to advice why one would be scared. Now, if you are asking just to stir things up, or to get support that you are doing/or did the right thing, sometimes things can turn. I understand how it can look from the outside, but if you really want to listen to advice, I can't see it turning for the worst.
I have had questionable questions before now and again. Instead of posting a thread that I could foresee as going wrong, instead I pm'd a member or two that I have great respect for and asked their opinion. Perhaps more people should do that. I think people should also refrain from using the phrase "if you don't have anything nice/helpful/constructive etc to say you shouldn't say anything at all" when they have been helpful like pages and pages back.
Sorry for the rant, this was not directed at you chandracz just wanted to reply to the gist of what you said. Don't be afraid to ask a legit question if you have one.
k I'm done I swear.