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Originally Posted by ArmaniMan  I dont know what kind of problems this kid had but she CHOSE to adopt him and I think that at the least warrants enough compassion to place him in the hands of the right agency and not dump him on a cross country flight alone. Whatever he did, or however bad his problems were they likely were not his fault and imagine how scary it would be to be a 7 year old kid alone on a flight across the world. I am not trying to say she had to keep him, I dont know her situation or his but the way she went about giving him up is what I find fault with. |
I agree with you , I think maybe the person giving her advice was not a child expert so she didn't get the right advice of what to do. No, it's never these children faults , but like I said it takes years to fix what other people have done to them since birth.
People sometimes are just not able to handle the years of fixing this problem, but yes I think she handled it wrong .
A lot of oversea adoptions go one everyday and turn out fine , but a lot do not and I think it's cause the agencies are not disclosing critically info on these children and their problems. It's very sad