Hello and welcome to YT! I hate to read stories like this. It makes me sad, but I am so happy he is with someone who cares and will love him no matter what. I have also heard if you put a poise pad in the belly band, it soaks up even more urine. I hope you can figure out a way to keep the belly band on him. I have seen many styles; maybe you just have to find the right one. Good Luck and I am happy to have you here.
